Babyshowers are given to the would-be mom to start her off with her baby needs.
I never realized how big a help this is until my friend Blue Sneakers hosted one for me. It was not only emotionally gratifying but educational to a first time mom such as myself as well. To start with, I don’t know which items to buy Baby Nina for her first three (3) months in this world. I don’t know the difference between a gauze diaper or a bird’s eye diaper. I don’t know the advantage of having a tie-side onesie from a babyshirt. I don’t know the difference between a manual breastpump from an electric pump, whether Medela is better than Avent. And I am horrified by the thought that I have to think of myself as a milking cow for the next six (6) months!
A roomful of women diminished (slightly) all these, with their comforting words, experience-gained knowledge and gifts…gifts…gifts!
So, here’s my Top 12 Pick of Best Babyshower Gifts, in random order, taken from “the loot” from that fun-filled day:
1. The Crib
It always pays to include some big items into the Baby Registry as you’ll never know if some kind-hearted generous soul has a mind to give you one, e.g. your parents or parents-in-law. In my case, my mother-in-law surprised us with a white wooden crib, complete with cushion and beddings, a week before the baby shower. My husband and I were both touched. It also threw us into a gift-receiving mode all of a sudden! We were excited over the arrival of more surprises!
By the way, cribs can be either the traditional wooden kind or the plastic-steel kind. Nowadays, both wooden and plastic-steel cribs usually are dual or triple purpose, transforming into a playpen and, in the case of a wooden crib, can also stretch into a starter bed.
2. The Beddings
I received about 5 sets of beddings that day but this one’s my favorite! It came from Blue Sneakers and it’s in a blue, yellow and cream giraffe theme. (Somehow, I have this fixation over giraffes!) That’s Mr. Giraffee on top. Pull-out its tail and a lullaby suddenly plays! It keeps Nina calm when she’s suddenly restless and playful in my tummy. 🙂
And here’s what I’ve just learned, beddings usually come with the fitted sheet, the comforter and bolster pillows. Some even carry with it a side-guard that runs around the crib to protect your baby from those hard bumps. Amazing!
3. Diaper Depot
This one is so cool! The package says “the complete diaper changing station”. Its made of durable plastic that one can hang over the side of the crib. I like it because its different from the frilly cloth-diaper depots one usually sees in the mall, plus it has so many storage levels that prevents clutter. Trust Tita Glends to spot a good product!
4. Reusable Diapers
One can never go wrong with diapers as gifts. But this one is reusable! How cool is that! Its a cotton diaper from Chino Pino, pre-folded and shaped, with velcro sides that no pins or clips are needed. Tita Teresa, a mother of four (4) kids, swears by this. I agree, this is such a find that I bought an additional dozen for Nina. 🙂
5. Baby Bottles
Another great gift as it is a must-have: baby bottles! Most mothers I’ve talked to swear by Avent because of its durability and anti-kolic feeding nipples. A set such as this comes with two 4 oz. bottles, two 9 oz. bottles and extra feeding nipples. I wished Tata Gi included the Avent sterilizer with the set. 😉
6. Bathtub
A baby bathtub is a necessity, not only for baby’s hygiene but mommy’s convenience as well. Baby bathtubs come in different shapes, sizes and color. But I like this one because it’s portable- it folds and snaps in the middle, perfect for storage and those family-outings. Its in a reclining form, with rubber mat, that one doesn’t need to purchase a separate reclining bath seat for the baby. There’s also space for shampoo, washtowel and soap on the other side. Lola Inday was surely smart to get this for Nina.
By the way, I just discovered that there’s a new bath tub model out in the market these days. It comes with a shower nozzle that’s attached to a round water container. Pretty convenient but the price is quite steep – P 2,300.00.
7. Toiletries
What’s a bathtub without the toiletries! Babies need their shampoo, soap, lotion, powder, diaper rash creams, colognes, etc. And what better way to present and package this than in a cute wicker basket with pink baby bear to boot! Tita Nikki surely knows how to tickle the kikay in Nina!
8. Child Care Kit
Babies are truly such a different breed that they need a whole new set of grooming tools just for themselves. Ibyang swears by Safety 1st as her lifeline to sanity in grooming her daughter Gia. It also comes with a thermometer and a mucus-extraction tool. I like this one for its hard case. Makes me look like I know what I’m doing. Hehe!
9. Baby Carrier
This is the next best thing to being gifted a stroller. If mommy is young, athletic, and don’t have much pregnancy weight lagging around, a baby carrier is the way to go. They say it strengthens the bond between mother and baby as opposed to having baby relegated in the stroller. It also eases the pain from those tired arm muscles. Just be carefull not to forget you have a bundle in front of you!
10. Baby Bag
Mommy still needs to look stylish during those weekend jaunts. Ate Rose got me this baby bag complete with a plastic changing pad and a baby wipes storage inside. Its roomy and durable enough to keep those feeding bottles and diapers intact. This comes in different colors and styles. There’s even one designed especially for daddy!
11. Baby Einstein Play Gym
It doesn’t have to be Baby Einstein, any play gym will do. Anything that will stimulate baby’s auditory and locomotor skills is fine with me. Lola Mel, Ibyang’s mom, was sweet enough to get Nina one which is portable and has a light and sound mechanism. Can’t wait to see Nina’s eyes pop up and snatches one of those mobile figures!
12. Baby Book
The book “What to Expect When You’re Expecting” is one of my most cherished books as it literally guided me through every bump and jolt in each of those nine (9) months. It is thus with much appreciation for Louella when I discovered she gifted me with this book “What to Expect the First Year”. As I said before, the prospect of becoming a mother fills me with the same degree of trepidation as it does me with excitement. This book, hopefully, dimishes that and answers most of the baby mystery for me.
So, there it goes, my Top 12 Best Babyshower Gifts. Practical, affordable and all given with thoughtful love to prepare me into becoming a perfect mom.
I just hope I don’t disappoint them…least of all Baby Nina. 🙂